tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1433477588399446112024-03-12T20:22:55.497-07:00like a shooting star Joycehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00716741260067657003noreply@blogger.comBlogger130125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-143347758839944611.post-36517312715484699162013-06-06T09:20:00.000-07:002013-06-06T09:20:55.588-07:00New Home<div style="text-align: center;">
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Joycehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00716741260067657003noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-143347758839944611.post-16663184100690687302013-04-21T09:40:00.000-07:002013-04-21T09:40:46.414-07:00Sa Wakas<div style="text-align: center;">
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Apat na taon na rin ang nakalipas mula nang matanggap ko ang balitang nakapasa ako sa Unibersidad ng Pilipinas para sa kursong <i>BS Nursing</i>. Noong una ay halos hindi ako makapaniwala dahil alam ko kung gaano kataas ang <i>quota</i> sa kolehiyong iyon at wala pa man din akong masyadong tiwala sa kakayanan ko. Hindi ko inakalang sa libo-libong naghangad makapasok sa kolehiyong iyon ay isa ako sa 75 na pinalad na makapasok. Siyempre, napakasaya ko noon. Wala akong ideya kung ano ang pinasok ko.</div>
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<i>Unang Taon</i></div>
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Sabik na sabik akong pumasok noon. Siyempre, sino ba naman ang hindi? Bagong buhay, bagong simula, 'yan ang nasa isip ko noon. Dahil sa masaklap na karanasan ko noong ikaapat na taon ng hayskul, ninais kong magsimula muli upang patunayan ang sarili ko. Naging maayos naman ang aking unang taon. Nagkaroon ako ng mga bagong kaibigan. Marami akong mga bagong natutunan. At hindi ko inakalang kakayanin ko palang mag-top sa isang <i>major math exam</i>. Noong hayskul kasi, isa lamang ako sa mga pangkaraniwang mag-aaral pagdating sa sipnayan o matematika. Dito ko rin nakamit ang kauna-unahan kong uno. Sa matuwid, oo, masipag pa ako noon. Sana, ipinagpatuloy ko ito.</div>
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Masaya pa rin naman ako lalo na't umabot ako sa pangalawang taon. Pero habang nagtagal ay nakaharap ko na ang tunay na hamon na dala ng bagong buhay na pinasok ko. Ang hirap pala ng kursong ito. Akala ko dati, madali lang ito. Akala ko lang. Dito kami nagsimulangm mag-duty sa iba't ibang lugar mapa-ospital o mapa-komunidad. Dito ko unang naranasang tumawag sa nanay ko para umiyak. Dito rin niya ako inalok kung gusto ko bang lumipat na ng paaralan. Dahil na rin sa panghihinayang, hindi ako pumayag. Buti na lang.</div>
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<i>O bakit ba ako pinahihirapan ng husto? </i></div>
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<i>Ang dami-daming kumokontra sa bawat kilos ko.</i></div>
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Lalong humirap ang buhay. Ngunit sabi nga nila, "When the going gets tough, the tough gets going." Marami-rami na rin ang nawala sa aming grupo. Yung iba, umalis, yung iba, naalis. Pero ganun talaga. Hindi rin nawala sa sarili ko ang takot na baka ako na ang susunod na maalis.Walang kasing hirap ang taon na ito. Walang tulog, walang kain, hindi na bago sa akin ito noon. Nakakapanibago. Nakakapagod. May ilang beses na nawalan na rin ako ng pag-asa, pero hindi ako sumuko. Iniisip ko na lang na konti na lang, at aabot din ako sa...</div>
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Kung inakala kong walang kasing hirap ang ikatlong taon, nagkamali rin ako. Ang ikaapat na taon ay naging isang malaking pagsubok para sa akin. Dito ko naranasang mawalan na talaga ng pag-asa. Naranasan kong umiyak at matakot para sa hinaharap. Ngunit ang mahalaga, dito rin ako natutong magdasal. Ika nga ni Ken, salamat sa mga guro ko at tinuruan nila akong magdasal. Totoo, natuto akong maniwala muli dahil sa mga nangyari sa akin. Hindi lamang utak ang napagod sa akin ngunit pati na rin ang aking katawan at ang aking puso at kinailangan ko ng ipaubaya sa Kanya ang aking sarili. Naging napakahirap ng taon na ito. Minsan nga, kung tatanungin ako kung kailan ako magtatapos ay hindi ko alam ang sasabihin ko dahil na rin sa hindi kasiguraduhan kung ako nga ay magtatapos sa taon na ito. Sa tuwing iisipin ko ang hinaharap ay tila may sumasakit sa aking dibdib. Hindi ito tumor o sakit sa puso. Ito ay dahil sa kaba at takot para sa mga pwede pang mangyari. Mahirap, ngunit ito na siguro ang pinakamahalagang taon sa apat na taon ko sa kolehiyo. Dito ako lubos na nagbago. Kung ano ang mga pagbabagong ito, sa akin na lamang iyon. Ang masasabi ko lamang ay nagbago ako patungo sa mabuti at ako ay lubos na nagpapasalamat sa mga karanasan na naghubog sa akin kung sino man ako ngayon. </div>
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Ngayon, nandito ako, at masasabi ko na ang mga salitang, "Sa wakas." Nalagpasan ko na ang apat na taong inakala ko ay panghabangbuhay na. Napakatagal ng pakiramdam noon ngunit ngayon kung babalikan ay parang ang bilis lang. Naaalala ko pa ang unang araw ko sa Maynila. Ngayon ay nandito ako, nakapagtapos na, at naghahanda na lamang para sa darating na <i>board exam. </i></div>
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Napakarami kong pagsisisi noon ngunit ang lahat ng iyon ay nawala. Kahit ilang beses kong sinabing hindi ako nararapat sa kulay na ito. Kahit ilang beses kong ninais maging dilaw. Ngayon ay alam na alam ko na kung saan talaga ako nararapat. Maraming salamat, UP. Binuo, hinubog, at pinagbuti mo ang aking pagkatao. Laking pasasalamat ko na sa ilang milyong beses na ninais ko nang sumuko ay hindi ako nawalan ng pag-asa at mas lalo kong hinigpitan ang aking kapit. </div>
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<i>Sa wakas ay kaya ko nang bumangon sa umaga.</i></div>
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Napakasarap sa pakiramdam na malaman na nalagpasan ko ang lahat ng iyon. Sa totoo lamang ay parang nananaginip pa rin ako ngayon. Ngunit hindi nagtatapos doon. Ang mga pinagdaanan ko ay hindi pa ang tunay na mundong dapat kong harapin. Sinanay pa lamang ako ng UP. Ngayon ay dapat ko nang harapin ang mga panibagong hamon sa akin ng mundo, ng tunay na mundo. Patuloy pa rin ang pagdating ng mga hamon, at patuloy pa rin ang paghubog sa aking sarili. Hindi pa ako lubos na magaling. Sa totoo nga, hindi ko nakikita ang sarili ko bilang isang magaling na mag-aaral. Pero hindi 'yan mahalaga, dahil hindi naman nagtatapos ang paglinang sa sarili sa pagtatapos sa kolehiyo. Sa bawat araw ay susubukan ko pang lalong pagbutihin ang aking sarili. Isa akong produkto ng UP at alam ko ang aking tungkulin bilang isang Iskolar ng Bayan. Maraming salamat muli, UP. Hinding hindi magbabago ang aking damdamin. </div>
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It was through a teeny-bopper magazine that I got to know this song. I have Taylor's discography saved in my laptop and in both of my phones, and I'm guilty of not paying much attention to this song <i>before </i>I read this article in the magazine which identifies this song as a feel-good one. And did I mention that I'm a sucker for feel-good songs as well?<br />
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The song is generally nice. The lyrics, well, they're quite nice as well though, at first, I thought it literally referred to being kings and queens of a kingdom. But through further research, I learned that it refers to being prom king and queen. </div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">For me, this moment would have to be the beginning of my relationship with my current boyfriend. It was, indeed, life-changing. Though we didn't have crowds going wild for us, it felt like that. I felt like a queen, and I still do. And yes, it was the start of an age. </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><i><span style="text-align: center;"><b>Long live the walls we crashed through</b></span><br style="border: 0px none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center;" /><span style="text-align: center;">All the kingdom lights shined just for me and you</span><br style="border: 0px none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center;" /><span style="text-align: center;">I was screaming long live all the magic we made</span><br style="border: 0px none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center;" /><span style="text-align: center;">And bring on all the pretenders</span><br style="border: 0px none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center;" /><span style="text-align: center;">One day, we will be remembered</span></i><br style="border: 0px none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center;" /><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">
And yes, through all the years we've been together, we've crashed through <i>figurative</i> walls. We made it past other's expectations of us. We made it through various obstacles. We kept it together. </div>
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<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><i><span style="text-align: center;">I said remember this feeling</span><br style="border: 0px none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center;" /><span style="text-align: center;">I passed the pictures around</span><br style="border: 0px none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center;" /><span style="text-align: center;">Of all the years that we stood there</span><br style="border: 0px none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center;" /><span style="text-align: center;">On the side-lines wishing for right now</span><br style="border: 0px none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center;" /><span style="text-align: center;">We are the Kings and the Queens</span><br style="border: 0px none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center;" /><span style="text-align: center;">You traded your baseball cap for a crown</span><br style="border: 0px none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center;" /><span style="text-align: center;">When they gave us our trophies</span><br style="border: 0px none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center;" /><span style="text-align: center;">And we held them up for our town</span></i><b><i><span style="text-align: center;">And the cynics were outraged</span><br style="border: 0px none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center;" /><span style="text-align: center;">Screaming "this is absurd"</span><br style="border: 0px none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center;" /><span style="text-align: center;">Cause for a moment a band of thieves</span><br style="border: 0px none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center;" /><span style="text-align: center;">In ripped up jeans got to rule the world</span></i></b><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">
There have been cynics, of course. I admit, we <i>were </i>an unlikely pairing at that time. But, yeah, who knew. We ruled each other's worlds no matter how simply plain and boring we were. We were not the hottest people around, but we still ruled. </div>
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<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><i><span style="text-align: center;">Long live the walls we crashed through</span><br style="border: 0px none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center;" /><span style="text-align: center;">All the kingdom lights shined just for me and you</span><br style="border: 0px none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center;" /><span style="text-align: center;">I was screaming long live all the magic we made</span><br style="border: 0px none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center;" /><span style="text-align: center;">And bring on all the pretenders</span><br style="border: 0px none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center;" /><span style="text-align: center;">I'm not afraid</span><br style="border: 0px none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center;" /><span style="text-align: center;"><b>Long live all the mountains we moved</b></span><br style="border: 0px none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center;" /><span style="text-align: center;"><b>I had the time of my life fighting dragons with you</b></span><br style="border: 0px none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center;" /><span style="text-align: center;">I was screaming long live that look on your face</span><br style="border: 0px none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center;" /><span style="text-align: center;">And bring on all the pretenders</span><br style="border: 0px none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center;" /><span style="text-align: center;">One day, we will be remembered</span></i><br style="border: 0px none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center;" /><br />Simply put, I'm having the time of my life with <i>him </i>through the good and the bad. And, as I've mentioned before, we've lasted longer than most couples my age. People did not really expect us to last long, but we did. We made things possible together. </span></span><br />
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Memories are love's best preservatives, according to a magazine I read. We've had numerous problems before, but we made it through not just because we still love each other. Looking back at all the things that we've been through together helps make our love worth saving. </div>
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Again, there is this possibility that we may not end up together someday. But if it ever happens, I'll regret nothing. Being with him has been one of the best parts of my life so far, and I'm really glad it all happened. It may not last forever (but I hope it does), but I'd still be glad it happened. I sure hope that he'd feel the same way too. And my only wish is for him to remember how much we shined--together. </div>
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“I don’t.” Claire said as she
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“No,” Peter answered back, “but
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I love the thought of starting over and not having people say "That's not you" or whatever. I just want to start anew because I just want to and I really feel that I'm no longer the same person who posted 80% of the posts found in this blog. People change. Feelings change. The price of gasoline changes. A chameleon's color changes. When you pay in excess, you get your change.<br /><br />Moving on, I just told myself to "Hold yo (almost non-existent) tits" because in a few weeks or months time *crosses fingers* a new chapter in my life will really be commencing. I'm as excited as a pre-term baby, actually. I can't wait for that new chapter. I guess THEN will be the best time to create a new blog. So for now, stick around, this blog ain't going anywhere (Gosh, I sound so black!). I've been itching to type away my thoughts and feelings but I've been too busy. I still AM busy. Don't get me wrong. But now I guess I'm a bigger procrastinator than yesterday and I'm actually making time for this sort of things. Well, I'm only going to live once, right? Thus, I shall blog about it so that my future grandkids will be able to read my blog and know how awesomely sarcastic and conceited their grandmother is.<br /></div>
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Joycehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00716741260067657003noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-143347758839944611.post-83689324299475410152012-11-03T20:50:00.001-07:002012-11-03T20:50:10.162-07:00SundaysApproximately three weeks ago,I decided to believe.<br />
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People close to me know that I'm not the usual Catholic.I don't, or didn't, go to church every Sunday.I don't know all the words to all the conventional prayers.I don't know when to stand or kneel during a mass.And hell,I can't live through a mass without the trusty overhead projector telling us all what to say.And thus,as I decided to "return" or to put myself in the "holy" circle once again,I sat there,pondering,asking,"Is this really faith?"<br />
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As I sat there,in the chapel that my father himself had designed,I watched people.Some came in their "best" attire,especially the old people.Some came in their usual malling attire.Some sat there deep in thought while some used it as an opportunity to catch up on the weekly gossip.Some didn't even seem like they know where they are.The truth is,going to church to hear mass is not as big a deal to others as it is to some.To some,going to church is needed because,well,they simply just have to.Some are simply dragged in by their family.The kids,for example, do they even know what they're there for? I remember getting pissed off last week by a child who kept crying and getting restless all thoughout the mass.Did that child know what he was into?Some,on the other hand, attend mass to search for answers.Some ask for blessings.Some just seek a better life.<br />
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I have nothing against these people and their beliefs.It's just that I'm confused as to whether what I am doing is right.Or if that's really how people are intended to worship the big guy upstairs.We go to church,sing "stuctured" hymns and speak "structured" prayers.As I stood/sat there,I didn't feel like it was all genuine.I didn't feel like I was really getting my message to God (and I know that's what prayers are for).But seriously,it wasn't as much as a spiritual experience as I would have wanted.The readings all seemed foreign to me.The teachings,well,not always,but today's were very questionable.I felt alienated then.I really did.And then I questioned myself,"How should I really feel?" "Why do I not feel completely secure?" "Why don't I feel the passion that most people have towards God?" "Why do I feel empty?"<br />
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And now,I sit here at home still thinking of these things.How does one have faith,actually?Why do I feel so devoid of these emotions?Why can't I have complete faith?<br />
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I really don't understand or "feel" a lot of things.I have so much to go through,perhaps.I need answers.I need to know how it really feels to have faith.What I have now is a seedling that needs nourishment in order to grow.I know I'm getting there.It may be painfully slow,but I know I'll get there.<br />
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Joycehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00716741260067657003noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-143347758839944611.post-73984541825487840302012-11-02T07:56:00.001-07:002012-11-02T07:56:46.830-07:00the semester that was<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>I haven't posted anything in a long, long while because, well...there was just too much to blog about that I just decided to not post anything at all to be fair. Now that the semester has ended (OH PLEASE,OH PLEASE) I think it's just right that I blog about it as a whole.<br/>
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To sum it all up, the previous semester was one hell of a rollercoaster ride. A cliche, I know, but I can't think of a better way to describe it. To be more detailed, it was a rollercoaster ride where my safety belt was malfunctioning and, somehow, somebody's vomit landed on me. Delicious. Not to mention that it was a 4-month long ride and it was freakin' graded.<br/>
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It was difficult, to say the least, but it was definitely fulfilling. I don't want to rant about it now that it has ended. Instead, I just want to close it and prepare myself for what's in store. I want to thank the people who helped me get through it and to those who made it one hell of a ride.And, of course, I want to thank the semester that was. <br/>
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While indulging myself in some restaurant's eat-all-you-can promo while studying for an exam, I came upon this sudden realization. I was looking outside, at the people (Yes, I was supposed to be studying). And then, this intense sense of well-being just hit me. With exactly the right feel-good song playing in my iPhone, with all the people having fun outside, it hit me. </div>
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We only have one life, one go, one chance at living. Do you get it? We don't get another try! (Well, unless you're Hindu and you believe that you'll live again as a locust or something.) This is it. The one shot we get. We won't be able to start again when we die. This is our chance to do the things we want. To make mistakes. To fall in love. To go to jail. To scream "penis" at the top of our lungs while in front of the church. </div>
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I'm used to having weird dreams. By weird, I mean those dreams that go from frighteningly insane, like being chased down by a hoard of winged creatures or having your whole family turn into flesh-eating monsters, to something extremely out of character, like cheating on my partner. I'm definitely sure the latter is more unsettling. </div>
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Ever since college, I have, occasionally, had dreams of being with or being romantically involved with guys who are not my boyfriend. Weird, I know. It's like my "dream" self is a slut who gets too antsy so she flirts with any guy she sees. My dreams would usually show me going on a date with other guys in the mall or in parks--nothing too intimate (Thank God). I started having these dreams again just this June. It started to bother me because it was always about<i> this same guy</i>. I think I had two or three dreams about that same guy last June. (Disclaimer: Never has this guy crossed my mind for ages!) I shared the dream with one of my roommates who, apparently, has some knowledge about this kind of stuff. And yes, she interpreted it for me. According to her, dreaming of such things somehow serves as a forecast of the future--the distant future, to be exact. While she was saying that, I suddenly started crying. I cried because I was pretty sure that I don't want to end up with anybody else but my current boyfriend. No past crush or flame can ever change how I feel about him, and I'm sure of that. When my roommate saw me crying, she said that it was very sweet of me to feel that way. She then told me that, maybe, it's different for all of us, or that dreams may not be as universal. I wish it really isn't.</div>
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Today, I woke up from another dream about a different guy, a guy who had a significant role in my <i>past </i>(emphasis on <i>past</i>). I dreamt, again, of cheating on my boyfriend. It felt very different, of course. Because, this time in my dream, I had enough conscience to turn the other guy down because of the love I feel for my boyfriend. I guess my dreams are there not to forecast the future, but to show me my "what if's" or the "what could have been's". Either way, my dreams only proved one thing--that I wouldn't have it any other way. I love the person I'm with. I'm enjoying every minute of being with him, and I'm glad that it's him I ended up with. With him, the future is clear--that I can see myself loving nobody but him <i>for all of my life</i>. </div>
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I used to be just a "passive" supporter. Liking Facebook posts about it and agreeing with others were enough for me. But something pushed me to write about it. This:</div>
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First of all, let me say that I'm very disappointed. What you see above is just ignorant and irrational. NO to safe sex? Does it mean that having unsafe or unprotected sex is advised? You don't say?</div>
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I'm not fully knowledgeable of the reasons why some people choose to go against it. Most of the people from the "other" side of the argument choose to be mum about it when asked, but they still express their antagonism of the bill. Yes, they say that they are "against" it, but when asked why, they don't deliver, or they do, but not adequately. One of the most famous reasons why they're against it is that, apparently, the RH Bill <i>kills</i>. I don't think that's utterly possible unless somebody has ever been murdered with a condom. The bill supports health care above all else, most specifically for women and for the mothers who need it the most. Being a student nurse, I know how being a mother endangers a woman's health especially during the time of pregnancy and delivery. Pregnancy is not an easy task, and delivery is not any less difficult. It's true that when giving birth, the mother is placed in a limbo between living and dying. In fact, because of the demands of pregnancy, a woman needs <i>at least three years</i> to recover from the stresses of pregnancy before she becomes pregnant again. This is contrary to what we're seeing nowadays. My professor shared a story about a mother who had 13 children. What's more surprising is that this woman lives in the streets with her family. How they managed to do it is still a mystery to us all, but what's obvious is that they wouldn't be able to support those children. Imagine just having a "kariton" as a "house" and having 13 children. Just imagine. Most importantly, the RH bill also addresses UN's 5th Millennium Development Goal which is to improve maternal health. In addition, it also plays a part in supporting the Magna Carta of Women signed in 2009. If caring for women's health is wrong, then I don't know what is right anymore. What angers me the most is that people from the "other" side ALWAYS associate the RH bill with abortion. Nowhere in the bill does it say that abortion is legal or even encouraged. In the bill, abortion is written off as illegal. You read that right. <b>The bill considers it illegal</b>. So those who are equating the bill with abortion must take a few minutes of their time to actually read the bill instead of just going blindly going with the flow and shouting "RH bill is against life". The same goes for those who support it. Read it first. Know the facts and be informed. Do not just take a stand for the sake of being "IN" and appearing socially aware.</div>
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Morality is another aspect tackled by the heated arguments between those against it and those supporting it. People from the other side say that it will only lead to promiscuity and to an increased incidence of premarital sex which is a big NO-NO for the religious moralists. I, myself, don't want to rush things because I know there's a right time for everything. It's my decision not to be sexually involved, and I made it on my own volition. The RH bill does not force us to have sex . It seeks to inform the youth because, believe it or not, most of the youth don't have enough knowledge about it. Being knowledgeable about it won't lead to promiscuity. Instead, it will serve as a guide in making smart decisions. Don't they know that the "morality" they are protecting died a long, long time ago? They're trying to make it appear like we are saints in the state that we are in right now. News flash, it's all just a lie. They refuse to acknowledge the fact that most people now have sex before marriage. In fact, some don't even get married at all. In this case, safe sex is advocated because of different reasons. One is, of course, to prevent the spread of sexually-transmitted diseases that can be life-threatening, and to prevent unwanted pregnancies. People have sexual drives, and it's normal. What these moralists are failing to consider is our humanity. We're not built to be celibate. Now they are saying that the prevention of conception is murder. Then would they rather have a family of 13 children who cannot even afford a roof over their heads? They care so much about the "unborn" child that they neglect the rights of those who are living. Then I think it would be better if we all crawled back to our mother's uterus. </div>
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Lately, I've been listening to my favorite foreign bands such as My Chemical Romance and All-American Rejects. I've actually been listening to Taylor Swift. It wasn't until last night that I realized how much I've been missing. </div>
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I learned of this gig last June when Una Buendia, Ely's daughter, tweeted about it. Immediately, I got the details, paid for the tickets, and there, I got vouchers for me and my boyfriend. We've actually been looking forward to this event since June given that we both are solid Eraserheads fans. The announcements specified that he'd be performing his greatest hits, and we knew, from that point, that we should expect A LOT of Eraserheads songs. </div>
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On the day itself, we were oozing with excitement. My boyfriend even cut class just to be able to go to the venue earlier. But because of the traffic and the very, very long line in the MRT, we weren't able to get to the venue as early as we wanted to. Still, because I "inadvertently" cut the long, long cue, we managed to score a pretty decent spot near the stage.When Ely started playing, I almost peed in my pants! Well, not actually, but yes, I was very, very hyped. I squealed like a baby whenever a personal favorite of mine was played. Actually, I consider almost all of his songs as my personal favorite, but there are those that are very close to my heart like Lightyears, Maselang Bahaghari, and Huwag Kang Matakot. And, of course, I held my boyfriend's hand a little bit tighter as Ang Huling El Bimbo played. ;)<br />
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As it ended, we were in denial. My boyfriend and I kept saying that there's going to be more, but as the crowd withdrew from the stage and as the number of people in the area dwindled, we had to face the truth. But being the persistent youth that we are, we managed to stay behind with hopes of seeing Ely one more time. We stood there for about an hour. While waiting, we saw many of Ely's relatives and friends. I wanted to have a picture taken with them, but I think I got too shy. Una Buendia passed by A MILLION TIMES but I didn't have the guts to approach her. I even saw Eon wearing a hoodie and a weird monster mask. After an hour of standing, acting cool, and interpreting the bouncers' actions, we finally caught sight of Ely as he left his dugout wearing a black shirt and a black cap. He was escorted by his family and by his current flame, Shawn Yao. I felt like a paparazzi as my boyfriend took pictures. Actually, we were the only ones taking pictures. Paparazzi much. Moving on, we left as soon as Ely's gang left Hardrock Cafe. We watched as Ely's gang boarded the designated vehicle. Finally, we were homebound. </div>
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It's our accidental free week because our professor has business outside of the college for the whole week. Yahoo. No, not exactly. Because it means that we have to go on duty next week instead of having a free week before we make our transition into Psysch nursing. Oh well, at least I get to enjoy this weather which is kinda erratic, actually. Moving on, I've been bumming around and not minding my responsibilities. I even coerced my roommates into watching The Healing today. So yeah, I'm really enjoying not having anything to do, or, simply ignoring the things that I have to do. Cheers to the bums out there. Yay! And sorry if I sound like a surfer. I can't seem to write intelligently as of the moment considering that I'm a bum. A legit bum. </div>Joycehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00716741260067657003noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-143347758839944611.post-85700912624877274362012-07-29T06:09:00.000-07:002012-07-29T06:09:20.068-07:00the V issue<div style="text-align: justify;">
Twice, yesterday, I was compelled to talk about this issue--the virginity issue. First of all, I want to make it clear to all of you that yes, I still am, and I plan to stay this way until I walk down the aisle with the love of my life. </div>
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First of all, I'm disappointed. Just because we've been together for so long doesn't mean we've been doing it. I think it was a misconception by one of my friends who thought it would be normal for my boyfriend and I to actually do it considering that we've been together for almost 6 years now. But it's still a big no-no for me and for him. Why? Well, we just don't think we need to. We're having a great time without having to break the rules. We enjoy each other's company without being sexual, and yes, we're completely happy even after 6 years of being abstinent together. I just don't see the point of having to take such a big risk. Besides, my boyfriend's religiosity goes through the roof. Staying pure until marriage is <i>that</i> important to him, and I'm glad that it is. </div>
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<i>What really prompted me to write this is that I heard that somewhere out there, there are actually people who are misjudging us. Worse, they bring this misjudgment to other people. I may not be directly affected, but yes, I'm the other half of the couple. So what you say about my boyfriend affects me, unless you've actually seen him with another woman. And NEWS FLASH, my boyfriend does not kiss and tell. I've met you once or twice, and I thought you were OK. It turns out, you're not. So pray to the highest heavens that you never EVER cross paths with me again, or something very, very bad will happen to you. Now, scram. </i></div>
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Do you remember my previous post? Well, if you don't, you can just scroll down and it will stare you straight in the eye. In that post, I was asking for "the push" to motivate me to work harder. Guess what, I got it. I got pushed. I almost got pushed right off the edge of wherever I am now, and it was nasty. I still don't know where I am, whether I've fallen off the clip or I've managed to survive and hang on. I don't want to divulge names and details because I don't want to get in any more trouble. Let's just say that I had a hard time last week because somebody "pushed" me. Yes, she "pushed" me into working harder and into not sleeping at all just to do what she wanted me to do. Because if I didn't, I'm pretty sure I'd have go through all that stuff again. Cryptic, I know. But I want to be safe. And right now, I just want to vent out all these emotions. I've kind of gotten over it already, actually, but it's still bothering me. I still don't know where I stand, and it's driving me crazy! Well, not exactly, but, you get the point. I know I shouldn't be worrying about it now because it's all over. Worrying about it will just make me feel worse. It wouldn't actually improve the situation.</div>
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I can't believe I'm saying this, but all I can do now is pray.</div>
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I've just finished season 1 of Awkward, a TV series by MTV, plus two more episodes from season 2. Jenna, the protagonist, blogs every night and types her heart out. That's why I'm here. Jenna inspired me.</div>
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I'm in some kind of a slump right now. I think it's too early to be burnt out, but considering that we had a sem's worth of lecture squeezed into three days and had our final exam on the 4th, makes me think it's really not too early for a burnout. But I guess it's not just that. I've been through two clinical areas already which means there's only four more left. I'm not yet THAT tired, but right now I'm really lacking motivation.</div>
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It's lonely, really. I'm in some sort of a rollercoaster ride. One minute I'm happy, another, I'm not. Last night was probably one of the highlights of my week, and no, I'm not going to say anything about what happened. My lips are sealed.</div>
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What I need right now is a "push". I'm not really stressed out or something. No, scratch that, I AM stressed, but that's not the reason why I'm feeling like this. It's just that, I've gotten so fed up with the stress that I'm already slacking off now. I've grown immune to the feeling that not a single cell in my body is panicking. I'm slacking off. Big time. I just want to feel energized. I want to be full of vitality. I need that one large "push" that will send me reading all the books that I have to and into preparing for the reports that are due next week. Come on.</div>
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If you're following me on Twitter, or if you're a Facebook contact of mine, you probably already know about my stand on the Lady Gaga issue that's hitting the religious community like an anti-Christ. </div>
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First of all, I'd like to admit that yes, I am a fan. Not so big a fan, but the admiration is there. Not only of her music or the out-of-this-world music videos am I a fan of. I'm also a fan of what she stands for and, of course, of who she really is behind all the make up--and the meat. </div>
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When she first became mainstream here in the Philippine music scene, I was not aware for those were the days when our cable was problematic and listening to the radio wasn't an option. That was the time when I was still drowning in OPM and Taylor Swift. Poker Face didn't really tickle my fancy for I didn't really have a thing for party/dance songs or whatever you call those ridiculously upbeat and infectious songs (though I still don't listen to such up to now). But it was when I heard more of her that I became a fan. I enjoyed listening to her songs and watching her videos despite the criticism for her utterly bold ideas. I enjoyed watching her perform live on award shows because doing so just leaves me in awe. I enjoyed looking at pictures of what she wore on the red carpet. Most often than not, all eyes were on her because of her outlandish ideas for a dress (e.g. the meat dress). But it wasn't until Born This Way and You and I that I acknowledged myself as a true-blue fan. </div>
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And now, as a fan of hers, I think it's time that I lay out all my cards for her. </div>
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People who think of her songs as satanic or evil are probably just deaf or mentally retarded. I heard somebody on the TV who's against Lady Gaga performing here in the Philippines say that the song Born This Way is actually about encouraging people to be criminals. First of all, Born This Way, for me, is one of her best songs so far. It's about being proud of who you really are regardless of race, appearance, sexuality, etc. It's not about killing people or pillaging villages! It's about being comfortable in your own skin, and accepting others who are also different. It's about not giving a damn about what others may say just because you don't fit in this cookie-cutter society. It's about finding beauty within yourself and letting it shine. It's about self-acceptance. It's about loving every inch of ourselves. It's about our freedom to be ourselves. In the society that we live in, people are easily judged by their appearance, color, or their sexual preference. I believe that this song speaks to those people who have been ripped off of their freedom to truly be themselves. Unfortunately, those moralists don't believe in this and would rather have citizens who are judging, scared, and are feigning heterosexuality. </div>
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Born This Way is just one of her songs that have been misinterpreted by those moralists. My message to these moralists is to not take things literally. Just because the song was titled Judas doesn't mean it forces you to worship Satan or to be a modern-day Judas. </div>
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Then there's the exposure issue. They think it's immoral that she goes on stage almost naked and covering only her lady parts. Well, these moralists have definitely not gone to Boracay nor have they watched shows like Wowowee where women wearing skimpy clothes are dancing in the background most of the time. And my message, again, to these moralists is a quote from Vice Ganda, "<i>Ang maduming isipan ang nagbibigay ng maduming kahulugan sa isang salita</i>." To a dirty mind, anything is malicious--even a harmless little bunny. </div>
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In addition, nobody is forcing those moralists to watch the concert. If they think it's too "evil", then they shouldn't watch it, and just leave the floor to those who are dying to see her perform live--just like myself. But unfortunately, I don't have the time and, sadly, the money. </div>
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I can go on all night saying what I have to say about this issue, but I think that this post might end up too long to be interesting. As a conclusion, what I would like these moralists to know is that there are always two sides to any story. This goes the same with people. Just because she names one of her songs Judas or just because she wears skimpy clothes to her concerts does not mean she worships the devil. Don't they know how charitable Lady Gaga is? Don't they know that she always prays backstage before her performances? Come on, moralists, if you're really the "holy warriors" that you claim you are, why are you doing this to one of your sisters? She's also a daughter of God just like everybody else. </div>
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Thank you, Lady Gaga, for entertaining us with your music and for giving us the courage to be ourselves. I hope to see you someday. It may be in another country when I'm old enough or when I'm "loaded" enough to dole out some cash for a VIP ticket. I just know it. </div>
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Yesterday, my Dad got a call from one of my aunts in his side of the family. She was inviting him to my grandmother's birthday celebration the next day. He just laughed. He got off the phone and asked me and my sister if we'd like to go. Of course, we said yes.</div>
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A few years back, such a simple family gathering ended up with tears and one sibling running after the other. I don't want to expound on that anymore, but it's pretty obvious that things have not been okay between my Dad and his family for several years. Feelings and resentment left unsaid, tears, and all <i>that</i> drama have maintained this gaping void between them. But yes, after years of reflecting and cooling down, this gaping void has been diminished, if not totally eradicated. </div>
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With our driver in tow (because my Dad has problems driving at night due to his declining vision), we went to Cubao for my grandmother's 89th birthday celebration. She'll be turning 89 on the 7th, but the family decided that it would be better if they had the gathering today to make sure everybody could come. With everybody, they meant <i>everybody</i>. As we stepped inside my grandmother's house, all eyes were on us. But those weren't the cold, glassy, and suspecting stare you get from doing something wrong. Those stares were more like the warm and welcoming stare you get from your family after returning home from a long journey. Yes, from that moment, I felt it. As they approached us, giving one <i>beso</i> to one aunt and doing the respectful <i>mano</i> to an uncle, we made our way back into the family my Dad has so long turned his back on.</div>
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It all started from there. The usual "<i>Ang laki mo na</i>" and the "<i>Dalaga na si Joyce</i>" welcomed me. Of course, I expected to hear that from them. The last time they saw me was when I was still in high school. Questions were then asked about my studies and other stuff. They were even asking about my love life! I surprised them with my quick and dignified response when they asked me if I had a boyfriend already. But it seems like one of my aunts was already very updated through Facebook. They were really open about things. And I loved it. They were old people, and yet, they were very cool to talk to. I enjoyed it. My cousins were there, too. I also got to talk to them though they wanted to remain silent most of the time. I was able to converse more with my aunts and uncles. Wait, does that mean I'm really old now? </div>
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Food (a lot of it) was consumed, pictures were taken, and stories were shared. But, sadly, we had to leave before sundown given that we live farther south and our driver <i>apparently</i> has difficulty driving at night as well. (For the last part, I think my Dad invented that just to leave the party early.) Before leaving, we went to my grandparents' room to say goodbye. My grandfather's really weak already. He's a war veteran. And I'm really proud to say that he's one of the few soldiers who survived the infamous Death March back in the Japanese era. Now he's just lying in bed. He can't even see well anymore. We had to introduce ourselves just so he'd know that we're there. My grandmother, despite not being able to walk anymore, is still kind of strong. She can still see and her memory's still really, really sharp. She's still very talkative, too! So there, we said goodbye to them with hugs and kisses. My grandmother insisted that we should go there more often. My Dad just said yes. </div>
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As we made our way out of the house and to our car, all of them (except for my grandparents, of course) accompanied us. It took us about 15 more minutes before we could actually leave because people were still chatting with each other. And after the final 15 minutes, we were on our way--southbound.</div>
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I had so much fun today. I felt really good talking to my aunts, uncles, and other relatives. Everything about the bitter past has been forgotten, and only the good remain. I was sad that we had to go early. I really wanted to stay longer. Maybe on the next family gathering, we'll be there, too.</div>
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As we made our way home, I reflected on the day's events and on how glad I am about this reconciliation between my Dad and his family. I'm glad my Dad decided to forget about the past and just let things be better for him, for his siblings, and for his family. I think he's happy with this, too.</div>
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Last weekend, I was at the beach! Hooray! Well, that sounds kind of weird since I don't really like beaches. Wait, let me correct myself. I <i>used to</i> not like beaches. I've always told people that when it's hot, I'd rather go somewhere cold like Baguio, Alaska, or inside the fridge. And I also do not see the point of wanting to get your body fried under the sun when you've been complaining about the heat non-stop. Also, I don't understand why people wear bikinis. People are practically in their undies when wearing those bikinis, and yet, when they ARE actually just wearing undies, they wouldn't even dare go out of the room---let alone walk around the beach in them. Even though I have such issues regarding the beach (and the scantily clad people walking around the beach), I must say, I like beaches now. </div>
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I had prepared for that outing! Well, not really. I planned to reduce my food intake just so I wouldn't look like a big fat slob while wearing the bikini top and shorts combo that my sister and my niece prepared for me. But of course, I couldn't do that. I ate normally, even more. But at least I bought some sunblock lotion for my body and for my face. I can't really risk roasting my skin because my skin burns easily. And based on experience, a sunburn is probably the last thing I want to have as a souvenir from the beach--next to a shark bite. </div>
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Upon reaching Laiya, we looked for a nice and affordable resort that can house all 15 of us. Of course, it wasn't easy. We had to go through different resorts with incredibly ugly names like "Mr. Bean" and "Mura Lang". Just imagine the agony if we had decided to stay in one of those stupidly named resorts.</div>
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Fortunately, the scenario above never happened because we were able to find a nice and affordable resort with a respectable name--The Mangrove Farm Resort. (Nice name, huh) The Mr.Bean resort turned out to be really ugly and it was a freakin' 200 METERS AWAY FROM THE BEACH! That meant we had to walk through the wilderness from our cabin to the beach. And that was a major turn-off. What if there were bandits or lions or rapists or leprechauns in those woods? NEVER. We didn't even consider checking out Mura Lang beach resort. </div>
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So there, having settled down and all, we ate lunch and headed to the beach. It was still too hot by that time so I just sat on a comfy chair, taking pictures of everything--even my legs. My niece, my sister, and most of the other people there were already having the time of their lives in the water. Negro, please.</div>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Lounging at the shore, staying away from the sun</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Olyn, my niece, swimming</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">The picture I took of my legs</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">The boobs with inverted nipples</td></tr>
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After a few hours of watching other people swim, making sand boobies, and taking pictures, they decided to go back to the cabin for lunch--again. And so, after that, I took a nap. Upon waking up, it wasn't as hot anymore so I decided that it was time for me to get in the water and feel like a ridiculously hot mermaid.</div>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">A true stolen shot (taken by my sister)</td></tr>
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The water was really shallow because of the low tide at that time. I had no problem with that. I can't swim to save my life. And knowing that I'm too smart (and tall) to drown in waist-high water made the beach more comfortable for me. We took pictures while in the water. My sister had an idea of kneeling so that the water would hide her, ahem, stomach, allowing her to look skinnier in pictures. Though I can proudly say that I didn't have to. HAHA. And even if I knelt, the water would still be too shallow to hide my waist. More HAHA. </div>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Stef (my niece), Me, Olyn, Ate Meanne (my sister), Ninang Ifey</td></tr>
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Upon sundown, we went back to the cabin, ate dinner, and rested.</div>
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In the morning, we rode the floating cottage as the guy with the nail art brought us farther off the shore. We had life vests on so we were able to get into the water and float around the cottage. Being the wimpy hydrophobic that I am, I never strayed too far from the cottage. </div>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">At the floating cottage before being pulled farther off the shore</td></tr>
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It was fun. Really. I kind of enjoyed being in the water until the waves of the ocean made me really dizzy that I had to get out of the water before I started vomiting. </div>
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We stayed afloat for two hours until it was time for us to go back to the cabin to eat lunch, and pack our stuff because we were only allowed to be there until 12:00 noon. But before that, we walked along the shore and took pictures of ourselves near the gigantic rocks. </div>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">With the large rock</td></tr>
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At exactly 12:00, we left the resort. On our way home, we listened to this sappy Maalaala Mo Kaya-like program on the radio telling a story of a girl whose first love ended miserably. This guy on the radio kept repeating, "<i>Hindi pangit ang first love mo. Mali lang</i>." We got home at around 3:00 in the afternoon. </div>
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I had fun at the beach! I got to conquer my fear of water AND somehow, my fear of the sun. I didn't get sunburned or anything, but my feet are two shades darker than they originally were. I loved the experience. I no longer fear the water that much , and I don't hate the beach anymore. I'm even looking forward to more beach trips in the future. Actually, we're brewing another one as we speak. ;)</div>
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I hope you, my beloved readers, are having fun this summertime, too. </div>
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Until the next post. :-*</div>
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<br /></div>Joycehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00716741260067657003noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-143347758839944611.post-2411416763159323022012-04-16T07:10:00.000-07:002012-04-16T07:10:03.929-07:00things are difficultI am too upset right now that I can't even think of a nice way to start this post without being too emotional and straightforward about it. I'm disappointed, frustrated, and depressed--and it's not PMS. I haven't been eating right, and there's always an ocean of tears waiting to be shed any moment given the slightest emotional nudge. And I hate it. I hate how you're affecting me. And I hate how it all made sense to me just last night.<div><br />
</div><div>I know I haven't been the nicest person in the world. I unleash hell when I'm mad especially when it's the wrong time of the month to mess with me. But I can assure you that I can <i>fight</i> for you. That I can stand up for what <i>we believe in</i> and whatever that is that we had <i>promised each other</i> in the long span of our relationship. I don't know why, but I think I'll never be enough for you. </div><div><br />
</div><div>And that sucks.</div><div><br />
</div><div>That sucks for you.</div><div><br />
</div><div>Because I'm not settling for anything less.</div><div><br />
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</div>Joycehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00716741260067657003noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-143347758839944611.post-78466989873122584972012-03-27T20:33:00.000-07:002012-03-27T20:33:01.639-07:00when the lights go outThe lights go out.<br />
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You neither scream nor cry out loud.<br />
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As you feel around the darkness.<br />
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Listening to footsteps.<br />
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To breaths.<br />
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You find <i>him</i>.<br />
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You hold on tight.<br />
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And it kills you.<br />
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</div><div>Who doesn't want to?</div><div><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">To live free from all the restrictions. To be able to get a tattoo on your wrist without other people judging you or without other institutions banning your entry because of that simple form of self-expression immortalized on your wrist. To get away from the things that make you unhappy or the things that waste your precious time like sadistic and close-minded professors.To go on a road trip taking nothing but your clothes, your car, and enough gas for your car. To express your love for somebody without fear of being judged by society. To say things out loud without being labelled as blunt, rash, or arrogant. Ah, the things I've always wanted to do, but continue to remain in my reverie as the dreams for tomorrow when I gather up enough courage to live the life I've always wanted. </div><div><br />
</div><div>But I'm pretty sure that someday, I will. </div><div><br />
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<div style="text-align: right;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">-An excerpt from Love in the Time of Cholera by Gabriel Garcia Marquez</span></div><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;"><br />
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</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">It's sad how things don't always stay as they are. How past promises don't always follow through. Or how past vows don't always get remembered. It's sad how love, among all the other transient things in this world, does not become an exception. </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">I don't know, but I'm really sad right now. Whether it's just PMS or all the sad news that I received today, I can feel it in my heart that something is wrong. I've been weighing it all now, and I don't like what it all added up to. </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;"><br />
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</span>Joycehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00716741260067657003noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-143347758839944611.post-84433328320568908702012-03-04T07:15:00.000-08:002012-03-04T07:15:27.397-08:00PGH Walk<div>On Sundays, I go to PGH to attend sunday mass in the chapel. Sometimes, it can get so lonely since not too many people are around during that time. Well, except for the chapel itself, maybe. But it's different knowing how PGH is like when there are many people around and actually being there when nobody is. I've been going there for three Sundays already (I think), and today, I decided to bring my camera with me, since I'm lagging a million lightyears behind my 'photography'. So here are the two best pictures I got from the place. I hope you like them. :)</div><div> </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ZK58vhcYjTE/T1OGxUWM_3I/AAAAAAAAAWs/ZR5Vn0TN0Dc/s1600/Another+PGH+pic.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ZK58vhcYjTE/T1OGxUWM_3I/AAAAAAAAAWs/ZR5Vn0TN0Dc/s320/Another+PGH+pic.jpg" width="215" /></a></div><br />
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